Imagine...

How would your love life look and feel…

If you had no fear of failure and disappointment?
If you knew exactly what to do and say with men?
If you possessed everything you needed to succeed at dating?

You’re about to learn how...

From the Desk of Dr. Ronn Elmore
Elk Grove, California
Tuesday, 4:25pm (PDT)

Greetings:

Are you frustrated by any of these issues?

• You rarely date and you don't know exactly why.
• You end up with men who lack commitment, or who aren't marriage-minded.
• You find a shortage of quality men—or you don't know where to meet them.
• You don’t always feel self-confident with men and dating.
• You’ve gotten sick and tired of trying, only to end up disappointed in relationships--again.
• You have “settled” for a current relationship that’s clearly going nowhere.
• You have “baggage” that seems to keep you stuck in a rut.
• You feel that time is slipping away and your chances of having a fulfilling marriage and family are running out.
• You know deep in your heart you are a good woman with a lot to offer--but you wonder why the right man hasn’t recognized that you are.

If you answered yes to any of these scenarios, you are not alone.

Hi, I’m Dr. Ronn Elmore.

Maybe you know me as the relationship therapist and bestselling author of How to Love a Black Man and No-Nonsense Dating, or as a longtime relationship expert for Essence and featured at T.D. Jakes events.  Perhaps you’ve heard me giving advice on the radio or seen me in action, coaching Tiny and Toya on BET’s hit reality show.

I talk to hundreds of women each month who feel just like you.  After over 20 years experience in ministry and clinical practice, I’m saddened to see so many smart, successful, women who sincerely desire love, but wonder why it has to be so hard to find it.  Fatigued and frustrated, many of these women have just about given up on ever having a fulfilling relationship with a committed, high-quality man.  Let alone becoming happily married.  

Can you relate?

I’m convinced it’s NOT that you lack the desire.  But past disappointments and the fear of another failure may have zapped your motivation and self-confidence.

Of course, without tons of motivation and self-confidence, it’s just not possible to develop the skills needed for relationship success.

I know what you’re thinking, “Wait a minute, Dr. Ronn! I am a smart, strong, successful woman. I have what it takes to be in a relationship. What do you mean I don’t have the skills?”

I’m sure you’ve already achieved great success in many other areas of your life.  But I’m also aware that achieving those successes required you to develop new skills—and to constantly sharpen them by taking the right action, at the right time and in the right ways.

It works exactly the same way, when it comes to your love life.

Showing you proven ways to reignite your confidence and super-sharpen your dating skill-set is where I come in.

Every single day, some woman, somewhere, encounters her true soulmate. She finally gets to experience the deeply fulfilling, highly compatible relationship that she always dreamed of.

Believe me, encountering the love of YOUR life is possible too! In spite of all the depressing statistics about women and marriage, the risks in dating; and in spite of your super-busy schedule, limited experience, or your disappointing results in the past. 

But merely believing that love is possible is never enough—any more than faith without work is enough. Real faith means you can count on God do his part, and that God can count of you to do yours. 

That’s where I’d like to help. And, in the same way that I’ve helped thousands of other tired, but still (somewhat) motivated, single women to regain their confidence, recharge their passion and skillfully invest in their own relationship success.

The bad news is…nobody can do it for you. The good news is…you CAN do it for yourself.

What Clients Are Saying.... "This program has given me hope…, a renewed spirit and the self-confidence that I had lost—something I thought I never thought would ever happen.  The “new me” has clearly become more appealing to the opposite sex. I have found myself stepping out boldly, like never before. Dr. Ronn, you made a believer out of me!" -- Christy

Sometimes, what you really need, to get going again, is a good jumpstart?

Now it’s your turn. I want you to experience the proven benefits of  my expert advice and my practical, spiritual coaching approach to help you get back in the game—and to win it..

“. . . powerful and inspiring . . . a gifted orator and a masterful presenter . . . help[s] us heal ourselves and our relationships . . . a blessing to our people.” -- Susan L. Taylor, Essence, former editor-in-chief

“One of America’s foremost experts on love, marriage and family relationships. . . . phenomenal insights . . . Oprah has her Dr. Phil, but we have our Dr. Ronn!” -- Bishop T.D. Jakes

I’ve learned a lot from nearly two decades of counseling thousands of individuals and couples. I’m convinced that the women who are blessed by finally connecting with their true soulmate, aren’t necessarily any prettier, smarter, or more loved by God, than those who never do. 

The real difference is that those who go on to achieve their goal, made a courageous and intentional decision to participate in the process. The bottom line: those who do nothing (or give up early) get nowhere.

But, those willing to prepare and participate dramatically increase their chances of achieving their goal.  Honestly, which kind of woman are you?

What Clients Are Saying.... "These last eight weeks have been the most insightful in my adult life in terms of my relationships.  You have given me the tools to break my unproductive patterns and really get going!  I know that I am still a "work in progress," but I can see my God-given mate right before my eyes! Dr. Ronn, thanks for being the wonderful coach that you are!!!" -- Sandra

“Imaginative and inspired . . .  Reminds us why we take vows in the first place . . -- Dr. Laura , syndicated radio personality

Are you ready to: 

• Jump-start your confidence and motivation to get back in the dating process?
• Attract a compatible man and experience a serious relationship—or even marriage?
• Get relevant answers to your toughest questions about men and relationships?
• Gain crystal clarity about yourself, and what you really want, so you can make wise dating decisions?
• Learn powerful, practical tools for purpose-driven dating and relationships?
• Put a stop to the endless cycle of negative relationship patterns--finally??
• Create and implement a proactive “Participation Plan” to connect with your God-given soulmate?

Each month private coaching and consulting clients pay hundreds, and in some cases, thousands, of dollars to work with me. Among my greatest passions in life is helping women acknowledge and embrace their desire for an incredible relationship—and then to pursue it with faith, dignity and yes, even joy. I consider this work to be not just my job, but my ministry; God’s call on my life. 

Week after week, month after month, I have the honor of teaching my clients how to eliminate the shrunken self-confidence and fear of rejection that once paralyzed them. Then, I get the absolute pleasure of equipping them with the proven, cutting-edge skills that I have developed from years of research and testing.  

As a result I am constantly seeing my clients, who had opted out of pursuing relationships anymore, turn into vibrant, self-confident, “magnets” who attract the attention—and the affections-- of good men. One of my biggest thrills is regularly receiving wedding invitations from women who once believed it would never happen.

What Clients Are Saying.... "[This program] has taken me into an adventure with a man that I will spend the rest of my life with. [My new husband] Herb wants you to know that you should keep up the good work and he is very grateful -- otherwise we may have never met. Dr. Ronn, YOU ARE AWESOME!!!" -- Carol (Married within months of completing coaching)

Believe me, these women are no different than you. They were just willing to summon their faith to seize a unique opportunity to invest in themselves, instead of just protecting themselves from love’s risks.

Now, what I want to teach you is NOT magic or mere good luck. And yes, it will take some serious effort on your part.  However, nothing boosts your confidence, self-esteem and your abilities like taking decisive action, especially when it feels risky to do so.

Frankly, I’ve gotten sick and tired of greedy hype and empty promises offered by countless so-called “relationship experts” all over the internet and elsewhere. You know, the kind with the slick guarantees that their advice will make dating easy and marriage a sure thing.   

Of course, it’s not easy--but it IS possible. Some of it is God’s responsibility, some of it’s the men who’ll be attracted to you, and the rest of it is your responsibility. .

I’m ready to offer you my time-tested strategies and insights that will not only help you succeed at your role in your relationship success, but to actually enjoy the process too.

How would you feel, what could you accomplish,
if you were totally fearless? 

For many months, I’ve thought about the best ways to help you achieve extraordinary results from your efforts.  I realized one thing was true, a relationship prep program this powerful couldn’t be the same old tired, superficial “rules” you’ve heard forever. I knew it required a BRAND NEW, practical approach; one that over-delivers lasting benefits like you’ve never experienced before.

I’m extremely proud to announce that my program is now here!

Here is what it offers you...

I warmly invite you to join me for my brand new, nationwide coaching program:

Total Confidence Dating™ is a pro-active partnership between you and me, your coach. It’s the exact opposite of passivity and procrastination. You’ll gain the powerful benefits of my many years of research and expertise in understanding what men and women really look for in the opposite sex.

Together, we’ll look at your dating life to determine what’s working and what’s not.

I’ll give you specific action steps to move from pre-dating to serious soul-mating—this year!

By taking action, with me as your coach, you’ll learn: 

• How to sharply increase your dating possibilities.
• How to dramatically enhance your confidence in relationships.
• How to shed your self-sabotaging thought and behavior patterns.
• How to weed out unmotivated, commitment-phobic time-wasters.
• Where and how to meet compatible men.
• How to use powerful communication and interaction techniques that bring out the best in men.
• How to “decode” the unspoken messages you receive from men you’re interested in.
• How to recognize “The One”.

After 20 years of  coaching experience,  I'm proud to offer you the Total Confidence Dating program for the FIRST time ever. It’s THE most practical, results-driven program I’ve ever offered.

Total Confidence Dating is an intensive, custom-designed learning experience that shows you how to maximize your strengths, minimize wasted time and connect with your God-given soulmate.

What Clients Are Saying.... "Dr. Ronn, you are a very encouraging man!  You’ve  helped me become a more confident woman of God. I now recognize and believe in my own High-Quality characteristics. My attitude and perception of men has taken a 100% turn around. I truly understand them better. I am presenting myself in "fertile places" on a continuous basis, and it now comes easy to me. I truly believe that my soul mate is awaiting me." -- Lori (Update: in a serious relationship since summer '08)

Now, let's review HOW you'll be receiving this life-changing information and inspiration, as well as my focused attention and strategic coaching...

1. LIVE Training Calls With Dr. Ronn on Featured Topics (Value $1,600!)
   
   For eight consecutive weeks, starting Wednesday, April 7th, I'll be leading a private training call exclusively for the members of Total Confidence Dating. Each call focuses on the topics mentioned above and much more.  You’ll conveniently access training materials, and support strategies online 24 hours a day.
   
   Please note these calls are not superficial overviews of each topic, but DETAILED training  sessions with step-by-step, action strategies and real-life examples to assure your success!
   
   NOTE: All calls will take place on Wednesdays at 5:00pm (PDT)/8:00pm (EDT).
   
   
2. LIVE Q&A Sessions With Dr. Ronn on Featured Topics (Value $800!)
   
   This is the part of the program I'm most excited to share! Special Q&A sessions, scheduled each week, immediately following your training module. It’s your opportunity to join the group discussion and talk with me live as I answer your questions and share resources and advice you need to establish the new mindset and behaviors to achieve your relationship goals.
   
   Even if you don’t have specific questions of your own, learning from your classmates will be invaluably beneficial to you. Hearing others’ questions and experiences allows you to learn MORE than you ever would doing it by yourself!
   
   You can ask me ANYTHING about dating or pursuing a high-quality relationship, even if it’s not directly related to the topic covered during the module. This opens the door for you to get specific answers to your real-life questions and concerns.
   
   
3. Online & MP3 Recordings of All Training Sessions (Value $776!)
   
   Life happens. If you miss a scheduled LIVE call, you still have a chance to benefit from the information. Each and every call is recorded and the audio files are quickly posted online (usually within 24 hours), so you can absorb the information when it’s convenient for you.
   
   You can listen to the recording online or download it as a MP3 file you can listen to on the go, with your iPod or MP3 player.
   
   
4. Your Personal Online TCD Goals- Tracking System (Value $300!)
   
   Chart your goals and achievements with your own personalized, state-of-the-art tools. Including a helpful goal-setting workspace, personal analysis tools and action plans. It’s your convenient, unlimited access to your own Relationship Success headquarters.
   
   
5. Exclusive Online Networking Forum (Value Priceless!)
   
   A networking group of like-minded individuals can be a powerful tool for  you to make serious dating and relationship progress.  You’ll have the chance to communicate with other motivated women, just like you.  You’ll  get to connect with each other, learn from each other and support each other.  Trust me, you’ll be amazed at what you all can accomplish as you contribute to each other’s success .  There is nothing like the genuine support and understanding of someone who has “been there, done that.”
   
   You'll have INSTANT ACCESS to this private members-only area as soon as you register.
   
   
6. A Step-by-Step  Destination Strategies Plan™ (Value $497!)
   
   The overall theme of this coaching program is MOTIVATED ACTION! All of the weekly training  modules support you in learning exactly how to build your confidence, sharpen your skills and achieve your goal—connecting with your just-right soul mate.  Each week you can INSTANTLY download  your Destination Strategies Plan,  so it’s easy to access--and IMPLEMENT.
   
   Consistent implementation is the key to your success. And having a step-by-step action guide to follow will make it easier for you than ever before.
   
   
7. An exclusive opportunity to apply for private coaching with Dr. Ronn (Value Priceless!)
   
   Going forward, only participants in this program will be eligible to apply for private coaching with Dr. Ronn.

TOTAL PROGRAM VALUE: $4,000+

Why should you participate in Total Confidence Dating™?

Because it works!   And it’s . . .

EFFECTIVE: A powerful 8-week group coaching format specially designed by Dr. Ronn Elmore.

MOTIVATIONAL: Includes eight advice-packed sessions with other serious-minded, single women like you.

PERSONALIZED: Not a “one-size-fits-all” format, but unique insights customized to your specific situation.

CONVENIENT: Eight (8) weekly 90-minute sessions you participate in from the comfort of your home or office on Wednesdays at 5:00pm (PDT)/8:00pm (EDT), starting April 7th. The schedule for the training calls is as follows:

• Call #1 - Wednesday, April 7, 2010
• Call #2 - Wednesday, April 14, 2010
• Call #3 - Wednesday, April 21, 2010
• Call #4 - Wednesday, May 5, 2010
• Call #5 - Wednesday, May 12, 2010
• Call #6 - Wednesday, May 19, 2010
• Call #7 - Wednesday, May 26, 2010
• Call #8 - Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Why should you work with me, Dr. Ronn Elmore?

I am absolutely passionate about stimulating people to love and good works. I sincerely believe that my God-given calling is helping women and men achieve relationship success. With Total Confidence Dating I will become your personal coach and mentor. I’ll listen, advise and encourage you, and personally support your progress each step of the way.

What Clients Are Saying.... "I remember how skeptical I was when I first heard about your coaching program. I wondered if it would really do any good to enroll.  I am so glad I pushed past my fears and skepticism and signed up. In the past I over analyzed EVERYTHING ...I remember you saying on the first day that you were here to help us understand how men think and why they interact the way they do. And you did just that!! It has been a life-changing experience."  - Clarissa

"Dr. Ronn Elmore is blessed with the rare ability to weave timeless inspiration with rock-solid advice. This Relationship Dr. not only knows his stuff but he's a powerful communicator to whom his audiences can't help but listen--and learn."  -- Tavis Smiley, TV & Radio Host, Author of What I Know for Sure

Aren’t You Worth a $397 Investment in Yourself?

Here’s a sneak peek at just a few of the eye-opening, results-oriented topics I’ve packed into my Total Confidence Dating program:

	COMMITING YOURSELF: Activating Your Relationship GPS The most challenging step in achieving anything is making a total commitment—a true decision. Learn the ultimate importance of defining your “Desired Destination” When it comes to achieving your relationship goals, the first question is not “how?” but “where?” do you really want to end up and “why?.”   At this stage it is important NOT to get hung up on techniques and strategies, but to determine, without a hint of vagueness, exactly what are the fulfilling reasons deep inside you that you want the relationship goal you’ve chosen.  You’ll learn how the simple act of declaring (and documenting) your own specific relationship goal triggers the power of decisiveness, the ability to envision your preferred future now and take meaningful actions to achieve it.  Convincing yourself of the value of  your ultimate goal, committing yourself to it and eliminating any confusion about whether it OK with God, yourself or others, is the foundation of  purpose-driven, Total Confidence Dating.
	CLARIFYING YOURSELF – The Power of a Blueprint Define the kind of soulmate you really want, in specific and realistic detail so that you don’t overlook him when he comes, or waste time with those who don’t fit your unique vision.  I’ll guide you in developing your “Got-to-Haves” and “Must-Not-Haves” lists. This becomes your  much-needed filter, helping you constantly maintain your focus and momentum AND to avoid settling for relationships that won’t last—because they don’t sustain your attraction, because they don’t match your vision.
	CONDITIONING YOURSELF – Internalize the Relationship Success Mindset You can master every dating and relationship success technique strategy I teach you, but it won’t make a bit of difference if you don’t have the right mindset. The right mindset isn’t just “positive thinking” or intelligent insights. It's about reconditioning your thoughts, speech and emotions to overcome self-doubt, passivity and procrastination. It’s about NOT giving into the same fear-based belief patterns that make encountering your soulmate and getting married seem so difficult. It’s about getting out of your own way, so your efforts can succeed like never before. I'll share specific strategies for you to quickly transition out of the paralyzing “Protect Myself Mindset” into an energizing “Expect the Best Mindset.” I’ll teach how to think and feel like a confident, faith-filled, uniquely attractive woman, so it’ll be easy to act like one.  The content of this one module is worth far more than the cost of the entire program and will set the tone for your long-tem success in love—and in life.
	REPACKAGING YOURSELF – Attracting Positive Attention in the “Relationship Marketplace.” If it’s true that there are 8 available women to every 1 available man, why should potential mates notice you, introduce themselves, and want to date YOU? Like it or not, the numbers work in his favor; he’s got more options than you.  Because of that, it’s important that you not just be “one among many” but that you are highly visible and stand out in the crowd.  In this practical, learning module, you’ll learn the extreme importance of maximizing your visibility to your best advantage in attracting and sustaining men’s interest. (Hint: Confident femininity is still the most eye-catching quality of all). I’ll reveal surprisingly effective techniques to confidently talk about yourself, and inquire about him, in ways that communicate genuine interest, not domination or desperation.    Discover how to craft your own “Personal Stand-out Style” (from the inside out). Develop the tools to upgrade the “vibe” you give, what you say and what you don’t and the physical, mental “anchors” that support  beneficial communication and self-disclosure.
	POSITIONING YOURSELF – Secrets of Showing up in “Fertile” Places Where should you go and shouldn’t go to meet available, compatible men and have meaningful interaction with them? And, once you’re there, what should and shouldn’t you do to participate in the connection process?  Is online dating the way to go, or strictly in-person? These are perhaps the most frequent questions I get asked by single women constantly. You’re schedule is already packed, with no time to waste. Getting from the introductory conversation on to the crucial dating (“research and investigation”) phase, without pointless delays, is all-important. I’ll show you how up to 70% of that is influenced by you knowing where—and how—to show up in the first place.  Discover how my 4-Step Availability Actions, empowers you with effective ways to position yourself for those brief, high-impact introductory interactions that can lead to follow-up communication, or a date request.

 

Price $597 Today $397

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“Luv it. Luv it. Can’t get enough! Dr. Ronn breaks it all down regarding relationships, period. This book is a GREAT read...High five to you, Dr. Ronn!” – “Scarletjazz” Amazon.com reader/reviewer

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“No-Nonsense Dating is a blessing from God...to believe that I will find my God-given soul mate in a world that always shows the opposite. I recommend this book to all single Christian woman because sometimes you just need help understanding what to do”. – Iris J. Davis – Amazon.com reader review

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I’ve found that virtually everybody likes to hear about opportunities to improve their lives. But most people never actually take advantage of those opportunities. Instead they focus on all the “reasons” not to. They usually end up doing nothing…again. And when you do the same old thing over and over, you usually get the same old results…nothing.

I pray you’re ready to do something new, in order to gain something new and improved in your love life. But frankly, that’s only likely to happen for the rare woman who’s willing to shake off her fears, fatigue--and her excuses—and take bold action.

If you’re that kind of woman, (and I sincerely hope you are) Total Confidence Dating™ really could be the answer to your prayers.

“Equip[s] men and women everywhere to love more sincerely and skillfully.” --Stevie Wonder

Now, the decision is yours.

It will be my sincere privilege to invest myself in you.  You are definitely worth it!

To Your GREAT Success;

P.S. – At only $397, and with an affordable 3-payment plan, there will be unusually high interest in this opportunity. Spaces are limited! To ensure YOUR spot I encourage you to enroll now. Class starts Wednesday, April 7th at 5pm Pacific/8pm Eastern

" . . lays the groundwork for a long-lasting fulfilling marriage. A treasure.” --Dr. John Gray, author, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

Note: Testimonials are genuine and are from actual clients.  Where photos of clients were not available stock photos have been used.